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Eamon Blackthorn — Communication Skills Expert and Author
Author & Communication Skills Expert

Eamon
Blackthorn

Eamon Blackthorn is a communication skills expert and author of the best-selling book SAY IT RIGHT EVERY TIME.

About Eamon

Eamon Blackthorn is a 60-year-old man from Northern Ireland who spent decades learning communication lessons the hard way — through career setbacks, relationship challenges, and real-life consequences. His experience spans factory floors, boardrooms, kitchen tables, and everything in between. He is the author of Say It Right Every Time, a practical toolkit built on hard-won wisdom tested in real situations.

Articles by Eamon Blackthorn

The Double Bind of Icebreakers: Why Being Warm and Direct Feels Risky
Small Talk

The Double Bind of Icebreakers: Why Being Warm and Direct Feels Risky

Icebreakers feel risky because they ask you to be warm and direct at the same moment. This article explains the Double Bind at work in those first exchanges, why the tension is real, and how Strategic Positioning changes what happens before you speak.

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How to Amplify Overlooked Voices as an Icebreaker Move in Group Settings
Small Talk

How to Amplify Overlooked Voices as an Icebreaker Move in Group Settings

Most icebreakers reward the loudest voices and leave quieter people invisible from the start. This article gives you a practical, step-by-step process for designing opening moments that draw out overlooked contributors and set a genuinely inclusive tone before the real work begins.

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The 'Me Too' Bridge: How to Turn a Cold Open Into Instant Common Ground
Small Talk

The 'Me Too' Bridge: How to Turn a Cold Open Into Instant Common Ground

Icebreakers fail when they feel forced. The Me Too Bridge is a six-step method from Say It Right Every Time For Women that turns cold openings into genuine common ground by finding shared experience quickly, signalling warmth, and giving others an easy way in.

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The S.O.C.I.A.L. Method: How to Break Into a Group Conversation Naturally
Small Talk

The S.O.C.I.A.L. Method: How to Break Into a Group Conversation Naturally

Breaking into a group conversation feels awkward without a reliable system. The S.O.C.I.A.L. Method gives you six clear steps to scan the room, open naturally, find common ground, include others, amplify quieter voices, and exit gracefully. It turns social anxiety into practiced skill.

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Strategic Positioning Before Your First Word: A Framework for Confident Icebreakers
Small Talk

Strategic Positioning Before Your First Word: A Framework for Confident Icebreakers

Most people treat icebreakers as improvisation. This article gives you six named frameworks for opening conversations with confidence, drawn from decades of practice and the strategic positioning principles in Say It Right Every Time For Women. Choose the right structure for the moment.

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How Women Can Open Conversations Without Triggering the Wrong First Impression
Small Talk

How Women Can Open Conversations Without Triggering the Wrong First Impression

Opening a conversation well is harder for women than most communication guides admit. This article gives you a practical, numbered icebreaker process built for real professional situations, including the specific missteps that undermine first impressions and how to avoid every one of them.

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News & Industry Updates

Why Most Performance Reviews Fail to Change Anything
Workplace & Teams

Why Most Performance Reviews Fail to Change Anything

Performance evaluations are one of the most widely used tools in the workplace, yet most of them fail at their core job: actually changing behavior. Small Business Trends recently spotlighted the challenge managers face when writing reviews, noting that clarity, specificity, and constructive framing are what separate a useful evaluation from a forgettable one. The gap between knowing this and doing it remains enormous.

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How to Handle Being Interrupted by Executives
Workplace & Teams

How to Handle Being Interrupted by Executives

Senior professionals, especially those newer to executive settings, frequently find themselves interrupted mid-sentence or simply ignored when speaking in high-stakes meetings. This dynamic plays out in boardrooms daily, and most people handle it badly. They either go silent and lose ground, or they push back clumsily and look reactive. Neither response serves them.

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ASML CEO Bets His Pay on Worker Trust
Business & Leadership

ASML CEO Bets His Pay on Worker Trust

ASML, the Dutch semiconductor equipment giant, went through a significant restructuring that left employee morale battered. Now CEO Christophe Fouquet is doing something unusual: tying his own compensation directly to whether workers report feeling satisfied on the job. It is a public bet that puts his personal financial stake in alignment with the people his decisions affected most.

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Board Leadership Is a Communication Skill First
Business & Leadership

Board Leadership Is a Communication Skill First

Harvard Law School's corporate governance forum recently published a deep examination of board leadership quality, arguing that how boards are led matters as much as who sits on them. The piece draws a sharp line between boards that function well and those that fail quietly over time. At the center of the argument: leadership style, not just leadership structure, determines outcomes.

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Tom Tiffany Blocked Reporter: What Went Wrong
Politics & Public Speech

Tom Tiffany Blocked Reporter: What Went Wrong

Congressman Tom Tiffany's campaign turned away a reporter attempting to cover a Milwaukee event. The journalist was denied access, effectively shutting out press coverage before it could begin. This kind of media blocking is a deliberate campaign choice, and it raises an immediate question: did the Tiffany team understand what they were actually communicating by doing it?

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eMudhra Crisis: Why 'One-Time-One-Client' Backfired
Crisis & Reputation

eMudhra Crisis: Why 'One-Time-One-Client' Backfired

eMudhra, a digital trust and security company, suffered a security incident involving weak cryptographic keys. Co-founder Kaushik Srinivasan publicly characterized the event as isolated and limited to a single client, while acknowledging that existing internal checks failed to catch the problem. The company's board is now meeting to evaluate structural changes in response.

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