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Eamon Blackthorn — Communication Skills Expert and Author
Author & Communication Skills Expert

Eamon
Blackthorn

Eamon Blackthorn is a communication skills expert and author of the best-selling book SAY IT RIGHT EVERY TIME.

About Eamon

Eamon Blackthorn is a 60-year-old man from Northern Ireland who spent decades learning communication lessons the hard way — through career setbacks, relationship challenges, and real-life consequences. His experience spans factory floors, boardrooms, kitchen tables, and everything in between. He is the author of Say It Right Every Time, a practical toolkit built on hard-won wisdom tested in real situations.

Articles by Eamon Blackthorn

The Double Bind of Icebreakers: Why Being Warm and Direct Feels Risky 15 min audio
Small Talk

The Double Bind of Icebreakers: Why Being Warm and Direct Feels Risky

Icebreakers feel risky because they ask you to be warm and direct at the same moment. This article explains the Double Bind at work in those first exchanges, why the tension is real, and how Strategic Positioning changes what happens before you speak.

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How to Amplify Overlooked Voices as an Icebreaker Move in Group Settings 17 min audio
Small Talk

How to Amplify Overlooked Voices as an Icebreaker Move in Group Settings

Most icebreakers reward the loudest voices and leave quieter people invisible from the start. This article gives you a practical, step-by-step process for designing opening moments that draw out overlooked contributors and set a genuinely inclusive tone before the real work begins.

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The 'Me Too' Bridge: How to Turn a Cold Open Into Instant Common Ground 15 min audio
Small Talk

The 'Me Too' Bridge: How to Turn a Cold Open Into Instant Common Ground

Icebreakers fail when they feel forced. The Me Too Bridge is a six-step method from Say It Right Every Time For Women that turns cold openings into genuine common ground by finding shared experience quickly, signalling warmth, and giving others an easy way in.

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The S.O.C.I.A.L. Method: How to Break Into a Group Conversation Naturally 21 min audio
Small Talk

The S.O.C.I.A.L. Method: How to Break Into a Group Conversation Naturally

Breaking into a group conversation feels awkward without a reliable system. The S.O.C.I.A.L. Method gives you six clear steps to scan the room, open naturally, find common ground, include others, amplify quieter voices, and exit gracefully. It turns social anxiety into practiced skill.

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Strategic Positioning Before Your First Word: A Framework for Confident Icebreakers 22 min audio
Small Talk

Strategic Positioning Before Your First Word: A Framework for Confident Icebreakers

Most people treat icebreakers as improvisation. This article gives you six named frameworks for opening conversations with confidence, drawn from decades of practice and the strategic positioning principles in Say It Right Every Time For Women. Choose the right structure for the moment.

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How Women Can Open Conversations Without Triggering the Wrong First Impression 17 min audio
Small Talk

How Women Can Open Conversations Without Triggering the Wrong First Impression

Opening a conversation well is harder for women than most communication guides admit. This article gives you a practical, numbered icebreaker process built for real professional situations, including the specific missteps that undermine first impressions and how to avoid every one of them.

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News & Industry Updates

Italy's Thailand Apology: A Crisis Communication Breakdown 4 min audio
Crisis & Reputation

Italy's Thailand Apology: A Crisis Communication Breakdown

A group of Italian teenagers caused such serious disruption during a trip to Thailand that the Italian Embassy felt compelled to issue a formal public apology on their behalf. The students were removed from the country and sent home early. The incident escalated beyond a school discipline matter into a full diplomatic and reputational crisis for Italy.

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Fired Without Feedback: A Communication Failure 4 min audio
Workplace & Teams

Fired Without Feedback: A Communication Failure

A software engineer at an Indian IT company was let go six months into the job. The company cited poor performance, but the engineer had never received formal feedback, a review, or a warning. They also raised questions about how performance was measured and why input from the client team was left out entirely. The story spread on Reddit, where others recognized the same pattern.

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MEC's Communication Failure: What Went Wrong 4 min audio
Crisis & Reputation

MEC's Communication Failure: What Went Wrong

Malawi's Electoral Commission (MEC) is facing a credibility crisis after weeks of contradictory public messaging. The situation escalated when fiscal police visited the Commission's offices, adding a layer of institutional scrutiny to an already fragile public image. For an electoral body whose entire authority rests on public trust, the timing and optics could not be worse.

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What That Brutal Time-Tracking Policy Really Communicated 3 min audio
Workplace & Teams

What That Brutal Time-Tracking Policy Really Communicated

A manager rolled out a new weekly reporting system requiring employees to account for every hour of their 40-hour work week. The policy excluded meetings from counting as "real" work, forcing staff to justify time already consumed by company-mandated obligations. Workers took to Reddit to express frustration, calling this system worse than daily timesheets.

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Poor Executive Communication Is Now a Governance Risk 4 min audio
Business & Leadership

Poor Executive Communication Is Now a Governance Risk

Corporate boards are waking up to something communication professionals have known for years: how a CEO talks matters as much as what they decide. Governance experts and investors are now flagging executive communication failures not as PR problems but as structural business risks. Companies where leaders speak poorly, vaguely, or evasively are being scrutinized the same way companies with weak financial controls are.

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Swindon CEO's Crisis Response: What Went Wrong 4 min audio
Crisis & Reputation

Swindon CEO's Crisis Response: What Went Wrong

Swindon Town FC ran into a wall of fan distrust when TrustSTFC published a survey showing supporters had lost confidence in the club's leadership. CEO Anthony Hall responded publicly, saying the club was working hard to improve. The response landed with roughly the same force as a wet paper towel. Fans asked for accountability. Hall offered effort.

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